Category: writing

Jan 16

you know when…

you write a first draft of a piece, think it’s 93% crap, edit it a couple times and think it’s now 82% crap, get ready to start edit three and realize:
holy crap, this is worse than crap. this won’t cut it – at all. and all of a sudden you’re completely re-writing the piece?

*holding up my hand*

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Dec 14

“skipping the gym? take this!”

or at least that’s what my mind said this morning. ( Read more )

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Dec 09

COLORed folks — share your shame, fight the stigma


here’s my latest huffington post piece:
COLORed folks — share your shame, fight the stigma ( Read more )

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Dec 08

the writing itch

this is (currently) my latest tweet:
Sometimes #writing is like an itch. I HAVE to do it or else I’ll be obsessed w/ it until I do.
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Dec 04

quashing the shame

i’ve never known a black female who’s had an eating disorder who hasn’t felt ashamed because of it.

  • not uncomfortable.
  • not embarrassed.
  • not guilty.

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Nov 22

“real housewives of beverly hills: stunted growth”

here’s my latest huffington post piece: “real housewives of beverly hills: stunted growth.”

as many of you know, i’m a (fairly) unabashed real housewives watcher. okay, i like rhobh, enjoy rhonj, had to watch rhodc because – hello – i went to college in dc, you know the drill… ( Read more )

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Nov 21

what a day! (pt. 2)

and i do mean that in a good sense.

last time i wrote a piece like this, it was a cloudy day. today has been wonderful! ( Read more )

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Nov 12

journals

after years of having journals, I did what I should have done more than a decade ago:
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Oct 30

regarding my posts

initially (which you can read in my info section), I planned on primarily writing short pieces. I clearly didn’t stick with that. I’ll try to do that more often in the future.

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May 30

no, it’s not sad!

there have been a few times where friends have read my pieces and they’ve said, “adia, this is so sad.” it’s always surprised me because i don’t see these things as sad. ( Read more )

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